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Sunday, July 29, 2007
难做人
原来跟老板说要辞职是一件很烦的事情。
他们很想我留下，这个星期被叫去“喝咖啡”几次了，但另外一边的 offer 却很好，无法拒绝，不然会对不起自己和父母。
挣扎了一个星期，心里面已经有了最后决定，相信所做的决定是对的，希望他们会了解，不会怪我。当然，现在离开对我的 team 来说是时机很不对，Eileen 都快要去 maternity 了，Ray 和 Adrian 也要去 reservices 。所以老板要我留下，很大的原因也是这个吧。
不想破坏和老板的关系，又不想失去一个这么好的 offer ，真难做人。也许，有时做人要心狠一点。如何巧妙地拒绝别人，的确是一门学问。
他们很想我留下，这个星期被叫去“喝咖啡”几次了，但另外一边的 offer 却很好，无法拒绝，不然会对不起自己和父母。
挣扎了一个星期，心里面已经有了最后决定，相信所做的决定是对的，希望他们会了解，不会怪我。当然，现在离开对我的 team 来说是时机很不对，Eileen 都快要去 maternity 了，Ray 和 Adrian 也要去 reservices 。所以老板要我留下，很大的原因也是这个吧。
不想破坏和老板的关系，又不想失去一个这么好的 offer ，真难做人。也许，有时做人要心狠一点。如何巧妙地拒绝别人，的确是一门学问。
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只是因为这个时候是“非常时候”他们才会千方百计留你。如果不是的话，他们还会那么热情吗？
You just feel like taking a long holiday!
And it works!
Think of the better side of leaving them!! =p
Anyway, it's over. I'm looking forward to work together my new company and new colleagues. Great challenges ahead, quite stressed!
Or else you will regret sometimes later, just like me :(